The Daishonin teaches, "The best way to attain Buddhahood is to encounter a good friend."* When you have a problem, rather than keeping it to yourself, please try to consult with someone senior in faith who you think you can trust and are happy with.
*”hree Tripitaka Masters Pray for Rain - WND 1, page 598
Translation of "To My Friends" published in the Seikyo Shimbun, based on President Ikeda's recent guidance, with universal value and application